'Aggressive GenNext inspires me'

<div class="section1"><div class="Normal"><script language="javascript">doweshowbellyad=0; </script><br />India is shining on the global map. We have opened the doors to the world. The current generation has the boon of exposure to multiple influences and opportunities. It''s natural that they would be a more confident and selfassured lot.<br /><br />When I look back, I realise that my contemporaries were shy.Most of us were groping in the dark and did not know where we were headed till we were 30- 35. We made our share of mistakes and still do. Youngsters today are very good at the first go.<br /><br />It''s remarkable how they rehearse and do their groundwork before facing the camera. I guess it''s the call of the times as the competition is so stiff. They are definitely under more pressure than what we faced. Their aggressive goal-aspirations are very inspirational; they have rubbed off on me as well!<br /><br />I have started doing my homework and am more alert about competition. I would love to emulate their confidence and focus in life too. Theirs is a new way of life with new maxims. I feel no antagonism towards jeans and the MTV culture, nor do I see anything wrong with the wave of western influence.<br /><br /><br /></div> </div><div class="section2"><div class="Normal"><br />Stimulation is always welcome, only we have to accept that with the pros come the cons. I have deep faith that our eastern heritage has a lot of depth and is, as such, deeply ingrained to be swayed by superficial influences. As life moves on we have to accept that social norms change. Why and how should not be an issue.<br /><br />In our times, we too were considered very liberal and avant-garde. Generation gap is predictable whilst difference of opinion, unavoidable. I never had a problem with my children. Ethics are a natural part of their upbringing, instilled by both Jaya and me. I do not put restraints on independence.<br /><br />Curbing anybody''s initiative or individuality is not my style, be it my children or grandchildren. I have worked with various age groups and have realised there is always something new and good to be discovered. My mantra is to move ahead in life by taking both the positive and the negative in my stride.<br /><br />As parents or grandparents, we must keep pace with the time and move forward positively in life. Take generation next — if they strike a right balance between following norms and satisfying one''s independent desires, they will have a winning formula on hands. <br /><br /><formid=367815></formid=367815></div> </div>